Love Takes Us to New Places

Great times and reveals in Alabama.

Jun 10, 2024

Welcome to Love + Travel, a chronicling of thoughts and adventures.

The past few weeks were so full of love and goodness I want to take a moment to give it its due.

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This weekend, I flew to Alabama for my Godson’s birthday. It was very hard to leave in the end.

This was my second visit, the first being for his baby shower the previous year. Before that initial trip, my thoughts about Alabama were limited to college football, Martin Luther King Jr., and the observation that the state’s outline resembles a capital letter D. However, it’s grown into a place where my heart resides alongside a family of three.

Visiting felt both like home and a departure from it. There was the familiar, like laughs over breakfast and taking naps on the couch, but also the unexpected, like getting peed on twice and counting the number of churches passed while on an 8-minute drive to Publix – 6 in total.

Possibly the most unexpected was tearing up in a breakfast nook while detailing my hopes and fears.

This weekend made me realize that parts of me haven’t been explored and only reveal themselves as I place myself in unfamiliar settings. There’s the me I know well who guzzles sweet tea straight from a gallon and can wrap a present better than the most senior attendant at a department store - ask about me. However, I became acquainted with a new side of myself while witnessing my friend’s loving family dynamic. The touching display made me reflect on my own childhood and my dreams of motherhood in the future.

Friendship is a vessel of the best kind. Its love takes you to new places in both latitude and depth. The land of lane cake was the last place I expected to learn something new about myself, but the reality is we’re our most vulnerable at home, and home is anywhere you are supported and celebrated, state lines be damned.

As I walked out, saying goodbye with ~~baby~~ toddler Myles in my arms, I sighed and said, “Fine, I guess you can have your son back.” He chewed on his fingers and I gave a final rub to his jellybean toes. Pictures were taken, and we sweat under the Alabama sun, muttering things about next visits and returning soon. We said the quiet part out loud - no one wanted to shift from where we stood at that moment.

The car was hardly out of the caul de sac before I started scrolling through photos and videos from our time together while smiling from ear to ear. In reflection, I know I am not the only one who learned something new about themselves during this trip. The thing about great relationships is that when venturing to common ground with another, you are led back home. Love is many things, but perhaps its most profound expression is found in the journeys we take together.

Peace to you today and always. May this week lead you somewhere new.

Best,

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